Happy Friendship Day

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I can’t give solutions to all of life’s problems, doubts, or fears.
But I can listen to you and together we will search for answers.

I can’t change your past with all its heartache and pain,
Nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can’t keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, success, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you, and help you when you ask.

I can’t prevent you from falling away from friendship, from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you, and wait for you.

I can’t give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow, room to be yourself.

I can’t keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back in place.

I can’t tell you who you are.
I can only be your friend.

Day Dreaming – Are You A Day Dreamer?

Who said dreams come only in night?? It is possible to have dreams during the daytime. Although naturally it’s during night and socially the right time for the dreams has been fixed to be the night time. Else you’ll get a label on your head as a day dreamer. To clear myself I am not a day dreamer. But I think I am going to be a day dreamer soon. I like to have dreams at night and I tell my dreams during the day time. Just being off topic, Have you read “Tell me your dreams” by Sydney Sheldon?? Nice book to read.

So these day dreamer are unique species which possess special  powers to see dreams during the daytime. These day dreamers have dreams which most of the time fall in humor category. Yes they are  just like the crazy dreams. I wonder how they are able to see dreams during daytime. I am unable to sleep during day and recently was in nights also. These day dreamers don’t sleep during the daytime.They see the dreams with open eyes.

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At this point I see what amazing power they have. It is indeed difficult to see dreams with open eyes. I tried this so as to become a day dreamer. But I was unable to see the dreams. In the end I would like the day dreamers not to share their powers. Get a job or work somewhere and get engaged in something. You have an unique quality.

All of us dream. Those who dream in night, wake up in the day and they are vanished. But day dreamers are dangerous. They may act their dreams with open eyes to make it possible.

Sources: I would like to thank some of my friends, colleagues and people I see everyday to help me in writing this much about day dreaming. It was not at all possible without these day dreamers. 😉

The bond of love

The bond of love

This is just another kind of love. Today valentines day is celebrated throughout the world. 99% of that is just to express love for boyfriend or girlfriend. Don’t forget to express your love towards your close ones, who have been with you more than anyone else.

Repeating again this year also. Don’t wait for valentines day to express your love. Say it the moment you realize it.

Spread love…

One day with headache

I am not talking about my boss of work. I am not talking about my team leader(Wait.. there is no team leader). I am not talking about my girlfriend(It’s different from girl-friend. The hyphen clearly marks the difference. What’s more!!! I don’t have one). I am not talking about the beggar who bugs you every time when you are at the bus stop. I am talking about the headache. The one which gives pain in your head.

Yesterday I got a headache. I was on site and suddenly it started. I wasn’t able to have my complete lunch. Even the 2 liters of water. I took rest in my site office and decided to go half day. Well it wasn’t there for me. Some clients were to come on site and hence I had to be there on site. Then in the evening there was unnecessary dispute of the labor contractor and the boss of my work. My headache increased.

It almost happens every time that when I want to leave early, something happens and I have to stay late. I was there on site till 6:45pm. I asked the labor contractor to drop me at bus stop. I was hoping for a seat to sleep. Nope. At least I got a place to stand. I tried to sleep while standing. It’s a very difficult task to do. I wonder how horses manage that.

I came home. Refreshed myself and straight to bed. No dinner, No mails, No talking. Today when I woke up I decided to take a day off. Feeling good now. I’ll take rest for some more time and will try to complete pending work online. There is a lot of it. Only thing I wish is that this headache shouldn’t come again today and ruin things.

Think Nonsense…